I want to preface this by saying that I no longer set new year resolutions. To many times I’ve been the over enthusiastic ball of sunshine that proclaimed each Jan 1st that this was going to be the best year ever! It will not.. It will be the year it is meant to be- nothing more and nothing less. It will be a continuation of my story- with it’s own ups and downs. It will be a combination of both consequences and rewards from past choices.
Winter, which it is right now in my part of the world.. Is actually a horrible time to strive for change. As the seeds are in the ground patiently waiting for spring to blossom-so are we.. This is the time for rest and planning. To prepare. To imagine.
I do however like to set intentions for each year. An overall feeling or energy I’d like to embody as much as possible for the coming 12 months. This year the idea of Home keeps coming to mind. Home and Hearth. For me- home is a place you create where you belong just as you are; where you can be your best and worse self. Home is a feeling of community as well as individuality.
Just like everything worth anything in this world Home needs some care too. This year I want tend to my home- all of my homes in fact. My mind, my body, my family and friends and my physical house. What that looks like may change but as of right now it means making these things the number 1 priority of my life, allocating my energy and resources to improving home. And to do this I’m adopting the YouTuber Model.
So- the Youtuber Model is something I’ve noticed about some of my favorite Youtube Content creators. They have a schedule for when they release their videos. Weekly or bi-weekly seems to be the most common. Many have expressed that a weekly schedule is too tough and leads to burning out so they opt for bi-weekly or even monthly. At the beginning of the cycle they formulate an idea or project, spend a few days researching, a few days buying or locating materials and then they execute the idea or create the project, edit and upload a video by the deadline. Many have expressed that making “fake” deadlines helps them because since they’re working for themselves they don’t have the structure of having a boss who is giving them tasks and expecting they completed within a certain time frame. This makes a lot of sense for any person who struggles with getting things done. We don’t have anyone looking over our shoulder reminding us to make that doctor’s appointment or deep clean the baseboards. It’s so easy to push that stuff to some undetermined date in the future.
This year I want to do something similar.. I’ll start with biweekly as long as its sustainable and set one project to work on.. At the end of the 2 weeks i’ll do a check-in to see what was finished and what I still need to do. And then start a new project..
How are you going to embrace this new year? Do you make resolutions or have any plans?